I agree that INFJs have a facade of more gentility and when roused, our resentment can be striking. Devastating, even.My reply to a forum post.
Most of the time, I seem very somber/moody, and that supposedly makes me seem innocent, how quiet and sad I seem. I tell you, whoever said “Their faces convey the feeling that their soul is suffering even when it is not” knew their INFJs! People have asked me out of the blue if I am okay, I seem down today, or I’m very quiet and I look like I’m on the verge of tears when I’m just merrily contemplating life in my own bubble.
People do react with shock when I get ugly. I had an ESTP doubt me when I mentioned I have quite the dark streak, but that was out of her competitive nature, I think. I can shrivel anyone under my glare… I can go from an altruist to a contemptful bitch in the beat of an insect’s wing…
… Oh, sorry. Yes- to the OP’s question: I have been told I am intimidating or scary many times.
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INFJ Confessions 570) Sit down, shut up, listen. you’re not an iNfj. You couldn’t introverted intuit a BARN if it smacked you upside the face. Yet you think you’re ‘psychic’, that you’re special, because you’re the rarest personality type. Your low sense of self-worth aggravates me. You don’t even understand the struggles I’ve gone through to understand things about myself you destroy with your ignorance. I don’t tell you these things because I know you’ll deny them, but if your label defines you, you’re worthless.
To the so-called INFJ who brazenly wrote this: perhaps you should first find some peace in who you are (both in your Myers-Briggs and more). Then, perhaps, other people wouldn’t bother you quite so much, however ignorant they may or may not be. Figure yourself out and leave it up to others to do the same for themselves. Elitism is very unattractive. (Source: infjconfessions)
INFJ Hostility
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